How can sitting upright bring peace into my life? In our little book published by the Soto Zen Buddhism International Center, Soto Zen Introduction to Zazen (2002), they write
This kind of zazen practice teaches us to sit upright wherever we are. Sometimes our mind is calm and sometimes our mind is busy. Sometimes we feel peaceful, and sometimes we are in the midst of a storm. We neither cling to nor avoid any condition, but keep sitting in an upright posture. We try to live in this upright manner, not only in zazen but in our daily lives. When we deviate from uprightness, we are aware of it and return to it (page65).[1]
And so, do not be deceived by the idea that you can only be peaceful when you are actually sitting, meditating, or praying and that once you’ve completed that task you go back to the chaos of your daily life. In Zen your life is always based on the energy of sitting, the consciousness of sitting. When walking we walk straight and tall conscious of our every step, our eyes are tuned to “seeing” all things around us from the things that are close up to the things that are far away. We try to stay in tune with our immediate environment and in doing so it helps keep our mind from wandering into the past where fear, anxiety, regret, sadness, and disappointment may live, or living with expectations for the future of joy, happiness, love, and peace.
As the text says, “we neither cling to nor avoid any condition.” So when a fearful or negative thought enters our minds and disturbs our peace we do not chastise ourselves, get mad at ourselves, or criticize ourselves, we simply recognize the thought, thank it for coming, give it no power over us and move on. We do the same with the “happy” thoughts. Do not cling to either—simply observe and then let go.
Regardless of where you are or what you are doing, driving the car, working, doing dishes, taking care of the children, or watching TV live every moment as though you are sitting zazen: focused, fully aware, patiently observant, and in the “now” moment. And when you do you will be surprised at how creative, productive, successful, and in tune with all that is you have become.
I encourage you to walk with me on this path of Zen, try it, I think you’ll like!
[1] Sotoshu Shumucho, (2002) Soto Zen an Introduction to Zazen. Soto Zen Buddhism International Center, Japan