In the wonderful book A Guide to the Buddhist Path Sangharakshita writes about peace in such a beautiful way. In Pali there is a word “Upeksa which is tranquility or, more simply, peace.” He writes:
“We usually think of peace as something negative, as just the absence of noise or disturbance, as when we say, ‘I wish they would leave me in peace.’ But really peace is a very positive thing. It is no less positive than love, compassion, or joy—indeed even more so, according to Buddhist tradition, Upeksa, is not simply the absence of something else, but a quality and a state of its own right. It is a positive, vibrant state which is much nearer to the state of bliss than it is to our usual conception of peace (page 162).”[1]
And yet most of us have never experienced “bliss” itself. Sometimes we can feel something similar with help from drugs or alcohol but that is not the Buddhist idea of “bliss” for sure. But we all have experienced the idea of peace. What would the world be like if every morning every person on the planet woke up filled with peace, joy, and compassion for self and all others? No one would go hungry because if we had one piece of bread–we’d share it with someone who had none. There is a very powerful saying, “I cried because I had no shoes until I met a man who had no feet.” I cried because I had no peace until I met a family who lived in a war zone, or walked thousands of miles with their children to leave gangs and death, rape, and poverty.
The author goes on to write, “We shall have to regard ourselves as citizens of the world in a more concrete sense than before, and rid ourselves of even the faintest vestige of nationalism. We shall have to identify ourselves more closely with all living things and love them with a more ardent and selfless love. We shall have to be a louder and clearer voice of sanity and compassion in the world (page 132).”[2]
If it’s to be it’s up to me! I must be it, live it, and honor it in all that I do, and think, and say. I must be the example of peace and love and not to just the nice lady down the street, or the kind man who held the door for me when my hands were full of packages. Not just when the person agrees with me. There is a great story attributed to Mahatma Gandhi and told by Chuan Zhi in 2003.
“When we achieve true restorative balance within ourselves, we are happy and content and can live without regret, remorse, or guilt. We are at peace. The enlightened approach is to always be vigilant, to guard against committing sins—those violations of our Buddhist Precepts. But when we slip and fall into error, we must go that extra mile into positive areas and not only make restitution and correct the damage, but we must also correct ourselves.”
Chuan Zhi goes on to write:
Gandhi is near death from starvation when a crazed man, a Hindu, arrives with food that he insists Gandhi must eat. He demands, “Here! Eat! Eat! Eat! I’m going to hell—but not with your death on my soul!” Gandhi replies, “Only God decides who goes to hell.” “I killed a child!” the man confesses. “I smashed his head again a wall!” Gandhi asks, “Why?”
“Because they killed our son…my boy! The Muslims killed my son!” Gandhi sees the man’s unbearable grief and remorse. He gently tells him, “I know a way out of hell. Find a child, a child whose mother and father have been killed—a little boy- and raise him as your own. Only be sure that he is a Muslim…”
And thus, came peace in the heart of the man and the child that he raised. What do you need to do to find peace in your heart? Now go do it….
[1] Sangharakshita, A Guide to the Buddhist Path, Windhorse Publications: Birmingham England
[2] Ibid.
The World is Waiting for us to WAKE UP!